If you feel as if you’ve applied for too many positions without getting past the first interview (or even getting an interview at all), and you’ve become bored and frustrated with the process, you’re officially in a job-search rut. Forget about moving forward: The key at such moments is to rethink the way you look for work.
Accept Your Unhappiness
Susan Wise Miller, career counselor and vocational expert at California Career Services, imparted three conditions for change—the first and most important being the realization that you’re actually unhappy. “Unhappy is good because it’s a motivator for change,” she said. “If the inertia bothers you, then you have to create a concept of what’s going to be better for you.”
Build a Better Plan
The second condition for change is to fashion the environment that will allow you to determine and set attainable goals. Miller’s approach is echoed by Randi Bussin, founder of career-coaching firm Aspire.
“Get away from the computer,” Bussin urged. “You will not find a job sitting at your computer and applying online. You need to meet new people.”
While it’s hard to overcome malaise, it’s absolutely necessary to force yourself away from the devil you know in order to open new doors. Seeing fresh faces, hearing new ideas, building connections and getting in front of people who can possibly hire you, recommend you or create a job for you is transformative.
According to Bussin, another crucial step is to identify the right professional association groups and meetups that can influence the way you think about your work: “Join a committee or SIG for a professional group.” Make sure to attend and participate.
Create a Support Network
If you know other people locked in a similar struggle, reach out and organize a group. The support can be invaluable. A few years back, Bussin had 12 male clients all going through significant career changes. She started a bi-monthly support group. They came, got to know one another, talked about where they needed help, made new connections and practiced their pitches. When they were down, they had understanding peers to cheer them on. The group existed for quite a while; despite its eventual disbanding, the members have stayed in touch.
Believe Change Is Possible
Now that you’re building connections and have support, it’s time to cultivate confidence. Miller’s third condition for change is a belief in your abilities and what you bring to the table: “You have to be able to recognize that you can get from where you are now to where you want to be.”
A big part of getting from here to there is how other people perceive you. Bussin maintains that your self-assurance should be embedded in how you position and brand yourself online.
“Today, most people are checking you out online before they ever ask for your résumé or pick up the phone to talk to you. It’s digital first,” she said. “Do you have a compelling story to tell? You have to be someone they should hire over everyone else.”
Job seekers should take time to craft a compelling bio, one that showcases projects and skills. Also, remain visibly active on networking sites and share content; it’s imperative that you appear to be someone who’s highly knowledgeable in a particular corner of technology.
Give Yourself a Break
Finally, give yourself permission to take some time off from your search and do what you love. Taking a short break will energize you, boost your morale and help keep you on track.
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