DiceTV: How to Build Stronger Relationships at Work

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The Script

So, you’re a top performer at work, but you’re not treated as warmly as the other coworkers. You’re not an outcast, but you don’t feel like they quite have your back. What can you do to build better relationships with your colleagues?

I’m Cat Miller, and this is DiceTV.

Forging strong relationships with coworkers is an underrated key to a satisfying career. Camaraderie isn’t just a great stress-reliever; it’s also a practical resource during challenging deadlines.

As a tech you’ve learned “hard skills.” Do you know what you need now?

Soft skills. The most important… Be yourself. Faking nice or friendly when you’re not feeling it that day makes others think you’re hiding something. If coworkers perceive you as insincere, they will often respond in kind, resulting in relationships that are superficial though cordial.

Express interest in others. You don’t need a persistently cheerful personality to build better relationships, but people do want to be assured that they are more than just a face or a name to you.

Lend a hand. Lightening someone’s work load will go a long way toward building trust and respect. The time and effort you spend may be small, but the appreciation your continued help generates over time will be noticed by others.

Play it cool. When you need help, don’t overstate the urgency of the need. By sounding the alarm too often, you raise everyone’s stress levels, so pick your moments carefully.

Above all, don’t gossip. Sharing a juicy tidbit about a coworker might feel like a good way to develop a closer relationship with another colleague, but demonstrating that you can be trusted with confidential information will go much further. By changing your own behavior, you are likely to find that tighter bonds will take shape. If they don’t, consider options outside of your current department or firm.

I’m Cat Miller, this has been DiceTV,  and we now return you to your regular desktop.

No Responses to “DiceTV: How to Build Stronger Relationships at Work”

  1. Yes I am a tech, but very little. I just direct throught company website how to go through on phones , Ipads, pc or other devices in use. How can I up scale, by reading the latest versions or what. Not much in the experience fields to date. Please send some sugesstions like todays.

  2. What if yourself is an ass and everyone knows it? That would explain the lack of warmth in greetings. With that said, it is possible to not get on with a few co-workers, yet still be greeted warmly, and “gone to” when there is a problem. Why? Because those folks, and you, have learned to separate business from personal. Sadly, not everyone, including managers, grasps that concept. Even sadder, getting along well (professionally or personally) with others, can be a career tanker if your boss is the ass.